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[quote=Anonymous]One thing you realize when you get older and hopefully, more mature, is that most of the stuff that you think is so important and such a hill to die on doesn't really make a damn bit of difference. I wish I had known this which I was first married and started a family. Reading these treads and looking back at how I handled issues with my own mil when I was younger makes me really dread being mil some day. Seriously, ladies. Not everyone is borderline or narcissistic. Neither are they always out to get you. Your in-laws and and even your parents, were born of a different generation, had different norms and different ideas of parenting and relationships. Your kids will think the same of you some day. Give it a rest. Raise your kids as you see fit. Don't look for offense in every word, action and deed and seriously, stop the armchair diagnosis.  Most things are seriously not worth the drama shown on this board.  I can only assume most of you are very young.  For the wealth of education in the area there is a tremendous amount of immaturity.[/quote]

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