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[quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me want to seriously consider open marriage as an option.  I've struggled with this for sometime and even went so far at one point as to think that if I really loved my DW then I'd feel butterflies, so I thought I didn't really loved her.

Then I tried to imagine my life without out here and I was devastatingly sad.  The thought of not having her in my life was crushing.  Not having her as my best friend, not appreciating her humor, not raising children together, not enjoying each other's company, when we have sex we know exactly what the other needs and we even experiment from time to time, etc.

If that's what it's like to live like roommates then she's the best goddamn roommate I've ever had (of course, in college, I had a roommate who would eat his toenail clippings).

However, having all that and then still wanting more can be draining on a relationship.  I want all those things she has to give, but I also want newness and excitement.  I want to confide in someone else so I'm not constantly burdening her with my issues, and I want her to confide in someone else so I don't feel drained by hers.

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