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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, just out of curiousity : how long have you been dating and was the baby his?

Some men are dicks, but something isn't quite adding up for me.

Regardless, I really am sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. [/quote]

2 years of dating. Baby was his. He was playing soccer yesterday all day (starting from 1pm) and then went out until 3am. He doesn't do this a lot. He does have a [b]habit of NOT keeping his word. This is what bugs me the most[/b]. I am 28 and he's 33. [/quote]

OP, I strongly urge you to get therapy - and not just for your feelings surrounding the miscarriage.  Consider the bold and ask your therapist to explore with you why you would spend two years and choose to have a baby with someone who "has a habit of not keeping his word".  You do understand how messed up you are to do that, right?  Explore whether it is low self-esteem, low self-confidence, overwhelming desire for family or a relationship, repetition of family of origin issues, getting sucked into an emotionally abusive cycle, or whatever.

Regardless, this relationship needs to end, if you want a healthy and happy future.[/quote]

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