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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, just out of curiousity : how long have you been dating and was the baby his?

Some men are dicks, but something isn't quite adding up for me.

Regardless, I really am sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. [/quote]

2 years of dating. Baby was his. He was playing soccer yesterday all day (starting from 1pm) and then went out until 3am. He doesn't do this a lot. He does have a habit of NOT keeping his word. This is what bugs me the most. I am 28 and he's 33. [/quote]

I know you're grieving, and I am so sorry, but you really need to cut this guy loose. 
While people all grieve differently (and in this case, "escaping" for the day may be his way of dealing wi his own painful feelings), he is also showing that he won't be there for you when you need it (and when you have children, you need to be able to take his word and for him to follow through on it).)

I don't have a huge issue with him going out and not following through on the time, but under the circumstances, I think he's just shown what the rest of your life may be like.

Heal physically and mentally a little bit, then make a plan and leave. Don't let this be the rest of your life, wondering if this is the time he's going to come through. [/quote]

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