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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just wondering what has happened to people who was dating someone who was a good person and there was no real reason to leave them so you married them. You might have had a feeling that this person wasn't the right person for you, but you loved them and they were good and kind and you couldn't come up with a reason to break up. Or maybe you realized after you were married that being good wasn't good enough to sustain a marriage.

What happened? Are you still married? Happily? Divorced? [/quote]

Yes. Yes. Yes. He's a very good person. He has taught me a lot. We've be married almost 18 years. I did try to break up one time before marriage but .... He begged for me to not end it. And we stayed together. I, more recently disconnected from him entirely, but am trying to make it back.

The sex has gone up and down. The closeness hat gone up and down. I could probably take it or leave it as a relationship, bc I just don't care that much, but he is a great father, a good person. It is easier to be parents in one house, easier to have divided chores instead if having to do them all, and it was been years since I have had to think about technology; he does all that. He cares about me and vice versa.

I've always though marriages should expire after a while (10 years? 15?) actually, they kind of do. We are going to have to change this marriage to make it work again. And either we can do that together or not.

I'm not sure we are friends at this point.  It might be good enough. I'm not sure how to give more to make it more. And I do get  regular sex. (not 3x/day, but 3x/week). If we divorced I'm sure I wouldn't be getting that. So on the whole  .... Could be better. Probably acceptable. Probably entirely dependant on my ability to give more to this marriage. [/quote]

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