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[quote=Anonymous]OP back with an update. I appreciate these thoughtful responses. Many of you have dealt with complex situations as well, and it helps to hear those stories. He and I spoke a few times re: plans for his visit; I have family in town at the same time and I wanted to ensure they'd have some uninterrupted time to hang out and play. I brought up the paperwork I had sent...that he and I should set aside some time to talk and get it taken care of...that I'd like to hear his thoughts and ensure we're both comfortable with what is essentially a legal formality. He leaves a few days before Christmas to see his parents in another state, and I said we could get it done before his trip.

He'd like to wait until after Christmas, which I understand and said sure, let's talk after the holiday. I have no desire to deal with these issues over Christmas either. But this is the typical stalling behavior I've seen from him in the past. What I anticipate is that he'll become unavailable after the holiday, or just keep me in limbo for a while until he refuses to sign, at which time I'll probably have to serve him, unless he leave the country unexpectedly.

So I'm going to cool my jets, but I'm going to get this done. This is the type of game-playing I'll deal with forever from him. It's gotta end. [/quote]

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