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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spending time together without the kids is a good idea of course, but it's really only a possibility that doing so will bring her libido back.

These suggestions about helping spark a low libido wife always seem like throwing darts blind-folded. Maybe something will stick, but it doesn't seem like I hear a ton of success stories on this issue. Some folks helpfully chime in on coming back from a low sex period, but mostly the stories are in the other direction -- particularly when we're not talking about kids who are 0-2 years old. In this case, we have a 3 and 5 year old. [/quote]

Well of course it is trial and error.  If somebody had a fool proof method, they'd make Bill Gates look poor!  [/quote]

I'm not asking for fool-proof. I'm asking for something in the neighborhood of statistically significant. What we have now seems more like women projecting what they'd like from their husband onto OP's wife, whether it moves the needle on their libido or not. [/quote]

Women are not produced in a factory.  Each one is a unique individual, with a unique reason for their low libido.  They are complicated.  You can not just "fix them" the way you would a car.  The OP has not really told us much about his wife.  I wonder if he even knows much about her.  Without that knowledge, there is no chance of fixing her libido.  And, unfortunately for men, most women just don't get "horny", looking for sex with anyone who happens to be available.  It would be great for men if this were true, and may be similar to what most men feel, but few women are like that.

Maybe the OP should become gay.  If he wants somebody who is just horny all the time, another man might be best.[/quote]

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