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[quote=Anonymous]Nice job on making the best of what must be a very difficult situation for you. It sounds like you are doing everything you possibly can to provide for your daughter financially and to ensure she grows up in a stable home environment surrounded by multiple generations of nurturing caregivers. I think your ex’s track record and current level of involvement tells you what you need to know about his interest in parental bonding and the likelihood that he will be a permanent fixture in your daughter’s life. Getting a lawyer involved is probably very wise at this point. While it is always helpful to continue to try and keep the dialogue open between you and the child’s father, you definitely want to have another (legal) course of action in case communication stops altogether. And in the event you are unable to take care of your child due to unforeseen circumstances, she will be protected under the law. I’m sure that the emotional aspects are hard to accept an, financially, it may be a strain, but just knowing your daughter will be safe and secure will hopefully provide you with some comfort in your decision. Praying for calmness and guidance and strength. [/quote]
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