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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You didn't say if your father was alive or not. If he is, Mom is his problem not yours. If he isn't alive then tell your siblings how you feel and move on.[/quote]

Dad passed away a long time ago.  He was an angel to put up with her, but often turned a blind eye to the abuse.  To you and the others who have responded so far - thank you from the bottom of my heart.  The issue is not so much a financial one, as my mother has savings and real estate, it's really a matter of time - being with her, arranging and managing the in home care, taking her to appts, etc. The thing is she's going through several helpers, none being good enough and then, back to the drawing board.[/quote]

She needs round he clock care with dementia-time for assisted living/nursing home.  There is a difference between these and SNF-skilled nursing fcilities although some are both.

Her savings and RE will be eaten up with dementia and the costs for 24/7 good care are high.  Liquidate the RE, car, etc .  Your siblings are not thinking straight.  Is there a POA or joint POA?  Guardianship?[/quote]

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