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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe your dh knows this and was eager in order to impress you. I feel bad for the guy! Does he have friends?[/quote]

Maybe he was trying. He always tries too hard, and it's just to much.

Did  I mention the dancing?  He had to convince everyone to dance, and I do love dancing, but he's so bad at it.

I suppose he always was a dork, [b]it wasn't such a big deal when were younger, but  I feel like the standard is different now  that we're in our 30s.[/b]

As for why I married him he's a nice guy, smart, decent family, we  had fun together, I guess I loved him.[/quote]

This makes me laugh.  When you were younger?  Did you marry when you were 15?  Good God, you're in your 30s--you're still young.

OP, your DH is comfortable with who he is.  I'm hoping you'll learn to be less shallow as you age.  Not sure what will help, but you're the one who really needs it.  Your DH could buy a better wardrobe or workout more, but you need to grow up.[/quote]

We've been together since we were  22 and married since we were 25.  I agree that we are still young in the grand scheme of things, but I feel as though our 30s are a time to "cement" ourselves and impressions matter.  He's going  to be 33 next month I wish he'd care a little more. We're trying to start a family, and social connections will matter even more.[/quote]

What if your kid acts/looks like him? Will you find a way to overlook the "flaws" or will you just keep trying until you get one you like? [/quote]

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