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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here: I'm not asking him to come to terms, make peace or do anything other than have the decency to respond to texts saying why the silence, I love you, hope you're well etc. he could say I need time, I'll let you know when I'm ready to talk. I feel its unnecessarily hostile. And as thinking I'm escalating things by just taking him off Facebook? He's cut me off completely. 
[/quote] You are expecting him to handle this they way you want him to and not respecting his need to deal with it in his own time.  He may need time to process--alone--and you are expecting only your needs to be met an not his. Give him space without creating more drama by the childish act of "defriending" him.[/quote]

Exactly this.

[b]My own 2 cents as a DCUM poster you and your brother are both misplacing your anger directing it at each other "safe" targets instead of the deserving parent or parents.
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I also agree with the other poster that this is likely just one in many instances, but this was just the proverbial straw.

I understand why  OP is hurt, but I also understand her brothers response I don't think either of them are wrong or terrible people.[/quote]

+100000000000[/quote]

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