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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with everyone else. OP, you were wrong and extremely rude. By 27 you should know better. You asked for help, received it, criticized the suggestions, then chastised the friend for her perceived tone over a text message. Do you really not see the problem?

P.S. as it stood, there was only going to be one friend of your sister's at this party. That's sad. I think the friend was probably trying to boost the numbers so your sister wouldn't be embarrassed. Under the circumstances, it seems the guy she's talking to and another girl she has hung out with at least once are appropriate suggestions. It's not like there are any better options.

In fact, you seem determined to emphasize your sister's loner status in front of your family by keeping her friends away. You may want to examine your motivations here.[/quote]

OP here.

It was this girl who was being unspeakably rude! It was extremely kind of my aunt to host a celebration for my sister's graduation. It was extremely nice of her to loop me in. It was also very nice of ME to even nudge this girl for her thoughts.

[b]WHAT is rude about contemplating whether the two weak prospects she suggested were legitimate candidates for an invite[/b]! How would my sister feel randomly having  a girl she hung out with a semester ago to her aunt's house? How would she feel walking in and seeing this boy she was talking to sitting in her aunt's living room all the while she has not had the chance to introduce him to anyone?!
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Nothing is rude about that.  What's rude is that you chastised the suggestion giver.  If you spend any time on DCUM, you'd know that consensus is uncommon and unanimity rare.  Yet, in this case, everyone agrees you were rude.......[/quote]

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