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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know, I really don't think I'd believe you. Maybe if I was already suspicious, but I'm sitting here imagining getting an anonymous phone call  right now that DH was cheating, and it would be so unexpected that I'd probably write the person off as a nut.

I think you should keep quiet and just end the relationship. But, if you do tell, don't do so anonymously. [/quote]

Would you call them a nut if they produced photos, emails, texts, chats, and hotel receipts? I doubt the OW would call without sufficient backup as not to look crazy. [/quote]

Op here. There's no way I could call her, I'd start crying or chicken out and hang up. It would have to be email. But the things I could tell her so she'd know it was true are just so hurtful. I was with him in her house. I've been there while he spoke to her on the phone. Looking back now at the things I've done, it's creepy and disgusting. It's hard to imagine admitting it to her, to anyone really except my therapist. It's hard writing about it here. [/quote]
I would likely not give the wife all of those details OP. Your goal isnt to prove yourself, it's to put her on alert. Either she will heed your warning or she won't, but it's not your job to make her. [/quote]

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