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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make sure he is not talking to your kids about this and trying to become their "extra special trusted almost family" turned predator. Sorry to inject that, but this is what child protection training suggests as one pattern.[/quote]

That was my first thought too.

It sounds like your sister spends a lot of time with your kids, is vulnerable and needy, has few friends, low self esteem, and that is the perfect set up for a guy that wants to get to either 
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Especially being a male in the elementary school that is targeting her very aggressively (directory). I would be like a hawk and make it clear she is out of my house if I found out she ever took my kids around this guy.
I know you trust her, but the fact that she ran out of the house with no notice when this guy shows up tells me she could be swayed to do something similar or meet him with your kids. I'm sure he's very convincing. 
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OP here: this was definitely in my mind already but I had pushed it aside to "worst case scenario" territory. But the more people that mention it, the more plausible it seems.

You're right...if she is so easily swayed to do something so stupid and obviously out of her best interests, what else? This is really getting out of hand. I might speak to the school tomorrow. Actually, I'm DEFINITELY speaking to the school tomorrow. They should at least know what he's up to with the contact lists. [/quote]

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