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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make sure he is not talking to your kids about this and trying to become their "extra special trusted almost family" turned predator. Sorry to inject that, but this is what child protection training suggests as one pattern.[/quote]

OP here: Yeah, I have been very carefully watching for that. I told her under no circumstances is he allowed at the house without my permission (which he won't get) and he is not allowed to meet up with her when she's with the kids, either. She's not the only vulnerable one.

New development, by the way: she just told me he's already interviewing for other jobs at other schools (not in DC). I asked her: "does this not concern you? That he's claiming to be smitten with you, yet has one foot out the door already?"

My biggest dilemma right now is whether or not to report him to the school for looking up my sister's number (and probably others). Obviously, she liked it...so can he really get in trouble? And she's definitely going to know it was me who reported him. That would be a big problem between the two of us. She likes him.

I really REALLY wish, like one of the previous posters said, that I could find a way to intervene before she gets hurt...but I think the coffee is already brewing there. She's going to end up very disappointed. It's just a question of when. And how. [/quote]

Well, everyone goes through break ups and disappointments. That is a part of life you can't protect her from. 
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