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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know. I have indisputable proof from a reliable source. I truly doubt my LO knows.
I'm not trying to shame or embarrass anyone, but I think the SO is a manipulator and a user and I think my LO deserves to know the truth before making any major decisions.[/quote]

The problem is that you have an agenda.  You don't just want to make sure your LO is aware; you when him/her to dump the SO.

I think that, if you are 100 percent sure, you tell the LO.  With no editorializing.  "LO, you may already be aware of this, but I've found out from X that SO used to be a sex worker.  I'm telling you this only because, if you didn't know, it's possible that you might want to be tested for STDs."

Then Let. It. Go.[/quote]

I still really don't see how it's the OP's business. If she really feels that she needs to tell, I think your statement would read better saying, "LO, you may already know this, but I found out from X that SO used to be a sex worker. I'm telling you this only because, in your situation, I would want to know this before making any major decisions."

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