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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]op sorry but you sound demented and a bit psycho and obsessive.  You honestly need talk therapy to work through this.  What you are feeling is not healthy and interfering with living your life. Once the fiancé figures out you still have such strong feelings and how you feel about her I wouldn't be surprised if she convinces your "best friend" to cut ties with you.  And would you blame her?  She didn't steal him from you or prevent him from fulfilling his destiny to marry you.  You ex doesn't love you like you want or like you love him.  He doesn't now and won't ever.  That ship has sailed.  I don't care if you are so close to him or his family.  It's over, it's been over, you won't get back together.  You're wasting your time, energy and life obsessing over this.  Seriously, cut ties, get therapy and start living the real life you deserve.  This one isn't it.[/quote]

This is true, OP. Not that you're demented but you are not portraying yourself in a healthy light. I think you are convinced that if he hadn't met her, you would've been together, but it just isn't so. If he breaks up with her, it won't change anything. You need to fully grasp that in order to move on. Wish him well and find your own happiness. Hating her will poison you.

Does he know you feel this way?[/quote]

Y'all sound like my  girlfriend. She calls it " Keeping it real."

I don't know how to explain it before she came into the picture we were back to being really close again, almost like how it was before we officially got together.
People keep telling me to move on and live my life. This is my life? Why should I have to move to a new city and make new friends because of her?
Do I have to give up my dog too? Yes, we got a dog together when were dating, and he lives with me, but he sees him. Am I supposed to give my dog to her too, because oh wells she's won.

Why am I wrong for wanting us back together? It happens. You hear about it all the time couples that split up sometimes more than once and end up together in the end.
Why is it wrong that I care about him and don't want anyone to hurt him? Like I said before he's attractive and makes good money, , and he's a guy so he doesn't see gold diggers as clearly as I do.

My title was a little dramatic. They aren't getting married. They aren't engaged yet, but I'm worried it could happen.
He's only dated 2 people longer than 6 months and that's me and his former fiancee, so maybe she isn't the one.
Like I said before  current girl is not like his exes, not his type.
No , I've never said anything to him. I didn't think I had to. 
What am I supposed to say now? If I say anything now I'd look like a desperate nut.
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