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[quote=Anonymous]It seems more controlling and fueling drama, getting way too involved in someone's life you have scorn and resentment for, and a perfect way to enmesh yourself with her and continue your judgment and opinions since she will be extremely indebted to you. I don't see the kind and generous aspect that I would expect if she has truly fallen on hard times (sudden illness, disability) that would change this dynamic where you are caring and heart of gold and she is in need and grateful. It reminds me of inlaws giving money to their children and then controlling what they do and how they live since they financed it. [/quote]
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