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[quote=Anonymous] Your only mistake is not discussing this with your spouse first, because even if it is your own money, you don't just give 80K away without at least a chat. Of course, you should consider this a gift, not a loan. There is very little chance that she will pay you back. Additionally, I would be very wary of this anger you have. She will probably not change, and your resentment will grow, since in your head this 80K is a loan and not a gift. You will see her do nothing to earn money, and she will become stressed when she cannot pay you back. In brief, I don't think your extremely kind gesture will do any good. But it IS generous, and it is nice to know that there are good people like you in the world! So kudos, but now tread carefully. This could be the end of the friendship, and put a dent in your marriage, especially if you tend to do impulsive things like this frequently! [/quote]
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