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[quote=Anonymous]I did, and it ended horribly.  Long story short, we broke up (because of him), I let him back in for a second-go-round.  I was then diagnosed with breast cancer shortly after getting back together  and we started to get closer than ever before (he was hinting around at marriage).  Eight weeks into chemo, and literally once we had started becoming more intimate than ever (legit intimacy), he bailed -- he broke up by disappearing and then finally sending a TEXT MESSAGE stating that he didn't think it was going to work for him.

Funny enough, right around the time he disappeared and after a long and insightful conversation we had, HE brought up the topic of couples therapy.  I agreed to go, and then he backed out of that at the last minute as well.

Once we broke up he started to talking to someone immediately, and then another, and then another.  He literally hasn't spent a waking hour alone or not talking/dating someone.

My advice - save yourself and if you think you're in a relationship with an avoidant who either a.) doesn't know it or b.) knows it but refuses to do anything about it....RUN.  [/quote]

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