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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your affair still going? Wife find out?[/quote]

Yes, still going.  No, wife has zero clue.

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If she found out, would you end it or continue?[/quote]

I would leave it up to her. I type this as We are going on fancy date to Chevy Chase.  DW looks stunning.  Wish she could find her sexy.[/quote]

And we're home.  And she's tired.  Maybe tomorrow, she says.[/quote]

Me again. She is fucking facebooking.  And I am the bad guy because I am cheating.  Op, you don't have to divorce, but for the love of the Lord show your dh you still want to be with him in a romantic way.  I am at a total loss as to how any woman thinks they deserve monogamy when they enfoce near celibacy.  Why must I choose between my happines and my kids.

I love my wife but we need to end this charade called marriage. [/quote]

Yep, facebooking the "happy family" is such a charade. If having an affair keeps you more involved with the family so be it. My "marriage" turned into that same charade and I walked. I've realized that some "supposed to's" in life just don't apply to me. I'd rather be happy than in a loveless marriage.

Good luck man! W here and I totally understand your frustration. I honestly think so much I see on facebook is the "charade". It's absolutely ok to want more in life. And in some cases, its ok to make that choice. You are not a bad man. You are human. It's normal to want to feel wanted in that way. Now, you can't always get what you want, but you can have bandaids to help get you through. ie. an affair.  Just understand that if that continues, you will need to make a choice at some point. Hugs![/quote]

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