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It takes a special kind of a**h** to have an affair on a wife with a newborn and PPD. [/quote]

Seems like those things would make a guy somewhat more likely to have an affair.

Don't get me wrong. I think affairs are dishonorable no matter who is having them and what they're excuses might be. But the causes are somewhat more understandable (by which I don't mean excusable) in this situation than on average. [/quote]

She had PPD and his reaction to it was, not to help her get out of it, but not only to resent her but keep an affair going for a whole year. It could have been that an affair would have been understandable if he was compartmentalizing and was available and helpful at home when not with his mistress, but according to OP, he behaved miserably towards her during this time, coped to thinking of his mistress the whole time even when he was at home, and now that the affair is over, he still is not available emotionally to even his baby !

WTF???[/quote]

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