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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]That I am very much aware of the constant lies he tells, that he's not fooling anyone. [/quote]

Why can't you tell him?  [/quote]

Probably because she does not have concrete proof and [b]he will gaslight her until she goes insane.[/b]

Or, reduction in lifestyle/money issues that will result from a divorce. [/quote]

Bingo. Just not worth it. It's never about anything important, but man, I just sit there and think "how stupid do you think I am?"[/quote]

Can you try telling ridiculous lies back to him?  It might be kind of fun for you, at least.  Even funner when he starts catching on, and if he calls you out gaslight right back. [/quote]

I'm not proud of this, but I have.... For the record, we just started counseling. Maybe we can address this once and for all. Who knows. [/quote]

I say go for it. My father used to do this to me.  I honestly think he thought he was much smarter than me and "she'll never know."

Well, the joke was on him, cause I knew every time, and I would call him out, but it was exhausting.

Sometimes it's easier to just play someone's game, so I started lying back to him about little things and there were plenty of times when I knew he knew, and he knew I knew he knew and he couldnt call me out.

It's fun to give someone a taste of their own medicine.

My father also was an abusive douche and we no longer have a relationship. IDK if your husband is the same but I find habitual lying is generally a sign of a shitty person. [/quote]

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