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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not only did Dad choose Stepmom (and their new child) over me, but when they divorced after 10 years, he started choosing girlfriends over me.

He lived out of state and I was in town with my new son, his only grandchild. I asked him to meet me at a relative's house where I was staying. He told me his new girlfriend (who I had never met) wouldn't like him going to his ex-wife's relative's house, so he wouldn't come see me or his grandson. I didn't speak to him for months afterward, but finally accepted his apology and we moved on.

Men think with their dicks and [b]will always choose the person they're sleeping with over children, or really any relative.[/b][/quote]

+1 Men make the decision that will give them the least amount of grief in the short term. Does he want tot deal with the fallout from his girlfriend/new wife? No? Then he's going to go along with her. Period.

Men are pathetic this way, TBH.[/quote]

Actually, most relationship counselors will tell you that you need to put your spouse before your children. Obviously not to the point where you are neglecting or abusing your children (which does not sound like the case here), but the healthiest marriages that produce the most well-adjusted children are ones where a couple's relationship is paramount.

Individuals are pathetic. Entire classes of people are not.[/quote]

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