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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend loves me. We've been together for a year. We have never had sex. We didn't want to jump into it. Well, now I'm ready - and I've brought it up to him.  He told me that he has zero sex drive. He feels empty and emotionless. He physically can't have sex.  But he says that he loves me and wants a future with me.  What do I do? [b] Is there anything I can say/do to help him "snap out of this"?[/b] [/quote]

there is nothing you can do to help him snap out of this.  All you can do is be honest with yourself on what you can live with and be honest with him.  Never marry someone assuming they will change to what you want, ask yourself instead can you live with x behavior for the next 20-30 years.  If the answer is no, be honest.  Let him know that you aren't asking him to change, that you are instead being honest that sex is an important part of a relationship and feeling bonded/close and can't see going the rest of the foreseeable future with no sex.  Let him think on it. He can either decide that it is important to him to figure out how to get himself back on track or he finds someone that can be happy with him having zero sex drive.  [/quote]

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