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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, how old was the abuser when it happened? [/quote] What does that have to do with anything?[/quote] OP already answered the question, but as I said earlier, my point is that if the abuser was a young child, it could have been perceived as mutual exploration. Looking back, one child might realize he/she was taken advantage of; but the other child might remember the situation as mutual. I'm trying to understand why OP's husband is so forgiving and laid back about the situation, and I thought maybe this could be the reason. OP later said her dh was only age 7 and the abuser was "much older," so I don't think this was the case. I'm just answering your question because in some situations, the age of the "abuser" or aggressor can have a lot to do with whether one might be able to forgive, or whether one might be concerned that he's still an abuser as an adult. [/quote]
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