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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. Every time I "give" anything to my family, I consult with DH. My family is poor so it's usually money or clothes or something necessary. Intellectually I know he won't say no but still, I treat him like I'd like to be treated. I don't understand why he can't do the same with me. What is so hard about saying: Let me talk to Wife about that rather than just saying yes? At this point I am fine being the bad guy. I got a parking ticket because of their actions (using our address so I didn't get parking passes) and sense them, I just realized, I have to protect myself from their selfishness. I also wonder where it will end. Just how far will these over reaches extend? That's why I have to nip it in the bud. I don't know how to do that without getting angry. He's been a little testy today too. Our child got hurt at preschool and he ignored my calls for 3 hours. Makes me feel used. That's how i feel in one word: Used by all three of them.[/quote]
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