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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you sound like a controlling person. Your children want to be free to choose a house they can afford and live with without you calling the shots -- which is what you would try to do if they accepted a loan from you. I know this is uncomfortable for you but if you accept it your relationship with them might improve in the long run. My mother tried to control family members through giving us money. Eventually I learned to turn down her offers, which upset her at first, but which freed me up to have a grown up relationship with her. Your kids just don't want you trying to run their lives. They're grown ups now. Let go and enjoy them for who they are. [/quote]
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