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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't bring this up. You already made her uncomfortable by asking about the event and she didn't feel like she could be honest with you. If you make this into a thing, then you're just doing more of made her uncomfortable around you in the first place. Back down from all engagements with her. Clearly, she finds your approach overwhelming. I'd be polite and say hello to her but not much else. [/quote]

I agree.  [/quote]

OP here, yes, this is what I'm inclined to do. It's just hard to back out of other engagements with no reason. I wish I was brave enough to cancel or say no with the "getting my hair done" excuse. [/quote]

OP, when you say other engagements do you mean that she's part of social events that she's not hosting but you both are invited to?  If so, don't cut your nose off to spite your face.  Which means go to events you want to be part of.

If she's trying to initiate lunches or coffees with you, then I would feel free to decline.  You don't need to be specific as to why; just that you're busy.[/quote]

Yes exactly, we are both invited to pretty large events and I'm sure we'll both attend a number of them. I wouldn't decline the invitation just because she would be there.  It's just this specific event that I wasn't even planning on attending, she asked me to go together and I accepted. Now I really don't feel like it anymore. [/quote]

You are totally within your rights to cancel.  You don't even have to come up with a good excuse.  Just "I'm sorry, something came up, I can't make it after all" will suffice.  And then never contact her again.[/quote]

Agree- just don't connect or worry.  Not your problem.  There are so many fake people in this area to act like your best friend and then do something that makes you realize you are not in the "inner circle" or whatever.  Keep positve- you did nothing wrong- this person is simply not a friend so knowing this move forward.[/quote]

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