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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been sleeping in guest room for about a year or so. Started when the youngest would come into our room everynight. Eventually, I gave up and slept in guest room. It's fine for now. My DW has low libido anyway so it gives me a chance to get off in privacy (we have sex once per week). I wouldn't want this to be forever, either the libido issues or separate bedrooms. But it works for now and I don't see an adverse effect on the relationship.[/quote] [b]Once a week is pretty normal, not "low libido".[/quote] Written by a wife.[/quote][/b] Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on your view), once per week is normal. Stats show 67% of married couples in their 30s have sex once a week or less, meaning only 1/3rd do it more than once a week. When you reach your 40s, its only about 20% of married men having sex more than once a week, far more have sex less than once a week. As a higher libido DH, I find it depressing, but once a week sex is definitely normal. [/quote] It might be the norm but a healthy sex life is defined by 3 times weekly.[/quote] By whom? A healthy sex life is whatever sex life the two people involved are happy with. [/quote]
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