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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Good post OP. Parents get themselves crazy over labels, even when the label fits. The goal is the get your child the best support possible for his/her unique needs and to keep your child from turning off of school and feeling dejected. As a parent of a kid with SN I understand their initial reluctance, but I am always surprised by the parents who never get past it.

I have known parents who did not disclose anything and let their kids flounder rather than even get an IEP. I have known parents who went to great lengths to find the 1 clinician willing to call ASD ADHD. (Newsflash: many clinicians consider them on the same spectrum and ADHD does not imply higher functioning than ASD-even socially believe it or not. Many kids with ASD get the needed social skills interventions and by a certain point can function better socially than kids with ADHD who were not getting social help despite deficits).

As parents I think we need to alas ask ourselves

1.) Is my reluctance to accept a label about my child's needs or about my ego

2.) Am I doing the best I can t get my child the services he/she needs to thrive or even just manage?

3.) Am I accepting my child for who he/she is or for what his/her actual needs are?

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It's not ego. It's the fact that mislabeled children rarely get the help they need.

It's much, much tougher to go in and fight against the grain. It's so much easier to roll over and let them label your child with whatever suits their purpose.

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