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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just got off a speakerphone call with my ILs. They told us DH's aunt has early-stage, treatable breast cancer that we have every reason to be optimistic about. We are of course sad, but thankful for the silver linings here. MIL then says, "Well, Kate, I don't know if you know much about breast cancer, but it does run in our family."

Why yes, I do know a little something...on account of my mother having it. Radiation and a lumpectomy and a precautionary hysterectomy. Which I have talked to my ILs about. At length.

I'm shocked, but I shouldn't be. They never listen to me. They know virtually nothing about me and my family, despite me answering any question they've ever asked, and volunteering info when I try to be part of their conversations. They don't listen, and wonder why we are not close.

Sorry. This just made me feel awful, on top of hearing this unfortunate news, and I needed to vent.[/quote]

OP, I understand completely.  My ILs are like this.

15 years into my marriage, my said to me over dinner, "aren't you from Chicago?"  Why yes.  You still ask?

WTF[/quote]

That's messed up.[/quote]

Yes, it is.[/quote]

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