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[quote=Anonymous]^^ I agree with the PP on intuition.  My ex had a close relationship with a female coworker (subordinate) and we all worked at the same company.  I knew they were close because he'd tell me things.  Then it started to irk me and I went down the "HR violation" path to see if making it about work versus "you're jealous I have a female friend" would swag his behavior.  They ended up having an affair and we ended up divorcing.  I sensed it and then thought I was crazy for thinking it.  Your gut is telling you something isn't sitting well.  Figure out what it is and have him take it seriously.

I have always had close male friends at work and the thought of anything more never crossed my mind at all.  I have a male BFF at work now and people would call him my work husband. I shot that title down right away as his actual wife works at the same company and I would hate for her to even hear that. We do go to lunch solo all the time but never after work alone, only groups.  There are boundaries I am well aware of.  Your H's work "wife" is young and may just be playing the game to her advantage.  There are three sides to every story.  My ex loved the female attention.  Sounds like yours does too.  Examine your marriage and see if something larger is lacking. [/quote]

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