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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am sympathetic. Child of a cheater and married a cheater. Two divorces because of it. My mom made the mistake of oversharing, being critical, trying to get us to join her in her hate of my dad. Not good for us. It actually alienated us from my mom. All your child needs to hear is that both his parents are wonderful people. Your child takes 50% of their identity from both parents. Let him believe his dad is good. Do you want them to internalize that their dad didn't love them enough to not cheat and not raid their college fund??? If you feel you must tell, write them a letter to be delivered when they are 30 or you die or something. a letter you can decide to NOT send later if you change your mind. Meanwhile, sue that SOB for stealing marital assets and squandering them on other women. [/quote]
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