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[quote=Anonymous] In my parent's case there were mistakes on both sides. However, it was obvious that my dad was cheating while they were in separate bedrooms in the same house (and possibly when they shared a bedroom). My mom never told us details and always encouraged us to have a good relationship with our dad. My relationship with my dad was always difficult until I was married with a young child and finally we had the talk and he admitted that he made mistakes in his relationship with my mom and didn't handle things well. Here is the thing, for me to move forward and not hold resentment and anger I had to be able to recognize that someone can love you as a parent but be an imperfect person and make bad choices/mistakes in how they handle things. I had to be old enough to not have my parents as the sole authority and have enough experience in my own relationships to be in a place to understand it. [/quote]
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