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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To those who say MYOB, if you were the aggrieved wife would you want to know the facts or just remain blissfully ignorant?

I would want to know the facts.[/quote]

I'll bite and maybe this isn't popular but I don't think its anyone else's place, ever, to insert themselves into my marriage. I think barring serious abuse where getting someone out is paramount to survival/ health (NO you can't talk infidelity into that category) then it is really a shit thing to do to try to tell me what I should or shouldn't know. Either I find out or I don't but that really doesn't effect your life after you get your little "moment" in. So why does anyone feel the right to insert themselves? [/quote]

Weeellll, some would say that the other woman/man already "inserted" themselves into your marriage by sleeping with your spouse.  This would be just making YOU aware of YOUR business.[/quote]

yes and no.

She didn't insert anything that wasn't invited by the spouse, I don't think OW or OM are saints but I honestly think they are not at ALL what is the issue in the case of infidelity. So, in some ways, I totally get you and in others I still believe what I said. I'm not inviting you into my marriage to "tell me my business", just because he invited you for sleeping with him does not mean I think you have the right to insert yourself into my life with any such conversation. [/quote]

You have very compartmentalized thinking.  Almost like you think that by denying object permanency, an object only exists as long as you can see it.  You should know that your husband is your husband even when he is not with you.  When another woman touches him that is your business.[/quote]

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