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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 50 and I enjoy going out and doing things.  But the idea of having a new baby at this age, working full time and having a much younger SAH spouse who complains that we don't go out enough anymore - seems sort of draining to me.

The guy is probably feeling exhausted and overwhelmed.  And irritable.

If he wasn't an abusive control freak 5 years ago, why would he be a control freak now?  [/quote]

I don't complain to him that we don't go out. It's another tthing I suppress. I just enjoy being able to do activities with my toddler and the families at school. I would like to have some time for just us. I doubt if he is overwhelmed. Most people wait on him hand and foot because he is the boss. 5 years ago I had my own everything. My own place, I worked, and I had my own vehicle. So of course he wasn't a control freak then. There would be no way in hell that I would have stayed around. Those were the fun days. I don't see how he is overwhelmed about the new baby. He probably have held the baby a total of 5 times.. But who's counting. No support my entire pregnancy. He went to 0 appointments went me... But who's monitoring. Yet he makes sure that he doesn't miss taking his female friend to her chemo appointments. During my pregnancy I tested positive of  having a trait of Gaucher's disease. It's  commonly found amongst Jews. Mao they wanted to test him as well for the baby's sake..  They gave me a  kit, where all he had to do was literally spit in the tube.... Do you think he did it?  He carried this test too work everyday.  Yet you can make it a priority to take another woman to her appointments, take her out to lunch afterwards etc... It truly made me feel like shit my entire pregnancy. He pushed my family and friends away...yet he is still friends with his ex wife. He would pay someone to do his share of responsibilities before he feels like he is entitled to do so. [/quote]

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