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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not just his clothing, I don't find him that physically attractive. His physical features, complexion, etc.[/quote]

T[b]hen let him go and find someone who is smitten with him - he deserves that. [/b]Or let him know you're not feeling the chemistry and let HIM decide if he wants to remain in the relationship. It's not fair to him to be with him because you're scared of being alone, when he still has the chance to find someone who really loves him and is attracted to him.

[b]Attraction is very important, no matter how great the guy is. [/b]Don't stay with him for selfish reasons, he will be miserable down the line in a sexless marriage and that's not fair to him.

And I'm a DW, btw.[/quote]

DH here, totally agree.  It's one thing if someone is not your perfect physical ideal but the sexual chemistry is great.  But your situation is forced.  Trust me when I say this - marriage is hard, keeping sexual intimacy is hard over the long term.  if you don't have organic chemistry to start with, you are both doomed (unless neither of you care about sex).

Move on.

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+2.

(Frankly, he sounds a whole lot more attractive than OP does, but that's neither here nor there.)[/quote]

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