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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is her height and weight? before and after?
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5'1" - 150
"   " - 185

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Okay, so your wife was never terribly thin.  Doesn't sound like it's her body type.  And she doesn't eat healthy.

You are getting slaughtered and I get it.  But I will say that I personally would judge your reaction more harshly if you said your wife was generally eating all the right things and just having a tough time with her weight.  I am a woman and I've had two kids and 5 months post-partum is VERY SOON.  Having a new baby can be overwhelming and eating can be a way to cope, even if it seems to you OP that everything is going great.  So cut her some slack!!!!!

But.  But.

At some point post-partum, we need to take responsibility and manage our diet and make an effort.  Or choose not to.  Great.  Then your husband might not be psyched that you're getting fat.  And I say this because if my husband gets fat after chowing down on ice cream and fast food, I'm not as attracted to him and I'm bummed.  So this guy feels the same and he's a criminal?

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Sorry OP but 5'1" 150 lbs was already fat. You married a fat woman. You should not be surprised that she is fatter after giving birth.

I'm 5'4" and weighed 110 pounds pre-pregnancy. I'm now 125 pounds and feel fat. DH recently commented that I'm not fat but just normal now. He said I used to be skinny. He wasn't trying to be mean but I felt really bad. I want to look good so I am cutting out ice cream and sweets from my diet. Your wife has to be the one who wants to change.[/quote]

5'4" and 125 pounds is perfect. Embrace yourself.  :) [/quote]

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