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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am curious about something my DW does. I will not attribute it to other it most women, but maybe other women can shed insight into her behavior.

My wife has a big case of double standards. She behave in the rudest, bitchiest manner but when the tables turn on her she is suddenly upset and offended. She really can't argue or fight fair and will get into using language I consider borderine abusive. For example, she feels free that she can say whatever she wants - no matter how offensive or denigrating - about me, my mother or my family, but if I would do the same she would completely lose her sh*t. Most of the time, I just walk away. But there have been a few occasions when she has cornered me and, well, you know what they say about cornered animals: don't be surprised when they fight back.[/quote]

Woman here. Dude, this is not a woman thing. This is an abusive personality disorder thing. My soon to be ex was like this, except he used his manly size to bully me along with the denigrating and crazy abusive shit he would say.

He would have a double standard too, and a total blind spot to it. Pathological. Therapy didnt help.

Dont be baited into striking her. If you do, it will be a game changer in the divorce that you are headed for. Want an arrest record? Then be the cornered animal that fights back. Case closed. YOURE the asshole then, and what led to it wont matter.

Considering losing the self control you have apparently maintained, and are maintaining with increasing difficulty, then your thinking side of your head better kick in fast.[/quote]

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