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Reply to "My bf is perfect on paper: just have a gut feeling it isn't right"
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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry didn't read through, but could you define what you mean by perfect on paper? Relationships aren't all about ticking boxes. I say this as someone who has btdt. You do not need to pressure yourself to be married by 30 . I did that ended up getting engaged to perfect on paper and ignored my gut 5 years and a messy break up later I met my husband who is not so perfect on paper or at least what I thought was perfect, but he is exactly what I need, and I feel so lucky to have found him and have him in my life. Also, if you marry his family becomes yours in every sense. You will be involved with them way more than you can imagine. Don't take their initial behavior lightly. Even if he were to put up boundaries or cut off contact he could easily end up resenting you before that. To echo the others go with your gut. Trust me when I say your real Mr. Perfect is out there.[/quote]
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