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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the friend and you are my friends sister.

It is exhausting dealing with her jealousy.

We have to pretend I am not there when she calls. We have to pretend another friend drove my friend to the hospital when she is sick (she has cancer and has been about 20 times in the past 2 years).

We have to pretend I am too busy to stop by the weekends she visits.

Her kids would declare themselves a ward of the state over living with her... Even though she has 2 great kids and is an amazing mom... To them.

What is your relationship with her kids? That is what is important.[/quote]

I'm not jealous of her friend.  I barely know her friend - but her friend has pegged me as the killjoy older sister based on one interaction.

I see my niece and nephew every 3-4 months, which is all I can manage since they're a plane ride away.  Her friend is farther away, distance-wise.[/quote]

But you are exhausting..and people have given you advise... Let it go, move on, get therapy... But you have an answer for everything ... excuse after excuse.

You fly to your sister's about once a week ????

Btw ... Your sister and her husband are not going to die... You are sad literally over something that will never happen.

What is wrong with your family bTW... First your mom telling you that you are not the guardian... Then you sister telling you her BFF does not like you. Your family sounds super dysfunctional.
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