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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife cheated and now I wonder if our son is mine.   [b]I love him madly and would be devastated if he weren't[/b] but I have to ask the question.

I have dark brown hair and WW has black hair.  OM has red headed children.

Our son was born with a full head of red hair which has darkened a little over time to light brown with red highlights.

Google not real helpful to me.

Any genetics experts out there? [/quote]

I'm not sure I'd ask then.

He's yours.  Whether or not he has your genes, he's yours.[/quote]\

Easy to say.

I can't blame him for not being content raising another man's son with an unfaithful wife.[/quote]

I can't blame him for being discontented either, but I have trouble believing that he'll be contented with the results of a paternity test.  [/quote]

Why do you say that? Do you think he's just trying to be difficult? [/quote]

No, I think he loves his son, and it also sounds like he has reason to believe his wife cheated regardless of the paternity of their son.   If the results indicate he's the sperm donor, I don't think it will bring him to peace with the fact that his wife cheated.  If the results indicated that the sperm came from someone else, it's got the potential to be devastating to both him and the child, and, in the event of a divorce, to jeopardize his access to a child he loves.  I don't see either of those as happy resolutions.  Sadly, I think there probably isn't a happy outcome to this situation.[/quote]

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