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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Parent of a teen DD, age 16.  My DD is exceptionally kind, polite and respectful to adults, especially the elderly.  Partly exposure to elderly family members, partly cultural, partly her personality and partly because I insisted that even as a very young, shy child, she MUST acknowledge adults and certainly respond to any questions.  Doesn't have to be talkative, but must acknowledge.

I work with teenagers in a school setting now - my approach is to lead with kindness and patience.  It's not always returned.

In general, manners aren't being taught at home anymore.  and yes, I sound like I am 85.

There's a pervasive sense of entitlement, beyond typical teen angst/development.  [b]My theory is that we explain way too much to our very young children instead of dealing in absolutes.  They grow up second-guessing or analyzing how certain rules may or may not apply to him/her.[/b]  Too many nuances and not enough firm absolutes.  [/quote]

Spot on![/quote]

This is exactly right. A friend and I were discussing this situation yesterday and this is what we were missing. Thanks! [/quote]

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