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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think if you do keep this a secret from your DH, you need to make it clear to your MIL that you won't discuss it with her again. Then, focus on the new baby. Let sleep deprivation help you forget she even mentioned it. But don't let her keep bringing it up as her one confidant on the subject. If this happened with my parents, and I was your DH, I'm not sure I'd want to know. If they are going to work it out and stay together, that's THEIR business. What is there to gain from telling your DH? I'd also consider, is there anyway you can tell your DH and he won't tell his siblings? My DH could do that, but I do understand some couldn't. If you think he could keep it to himself, and work out his feelings privately and not tell his mom or dad or sibs he knows, then push for telling him. It's a tough spot for sure.[/quote]
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