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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]wow OP. this thread got hijacked to the max

people, it was a friggin EXAMPLE. I'm sure he has some annoying habits that she has to nag him about, like always leaving his dishes on the counter (instead of putting them in the dishwasher) or leaves his shoes on and walks through the house after going for a run in the rain and mud. it's an EXAMPLE.

sorry OP. I can sympathize. my DH used to do this when we we first moved in together (pre-marriage) and I thought I had lost my mind because I didn't actually want to nag but I also didn't want to follow him around the house and clean up after him. it took about a year and some serious discussions in the tone of "you leaving me to take care of the desk when you brought the kittens in and you know I am overburdened at work this week makes me feel like you think my time is less valuable than yours. I now have to put aside my responsibilities and take care of something that we agreed upon you doing" after a few pointed discussions like that he actually understood that [b]it wasn't just him being lazy and taking care of it later, it was me having to add his burden and responsibilities onto my own.[/b] he's not perfect and sometimes he does leave me to do the lion's share but sometimes I put him in that position too and we are now in a give and take place when it comes to household responsibilities. [/quote]

YES!!! This, exactly!  When you say you are going to do something, DO IT.  Otherwise I will end up taking care of it, thus adding to the things I have to take care of, thus stressing me out even more.  Gah! Don't people get this?? No wonder so many of us are on anti anxiety meds. . .[/quote]

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