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[quote=Anonymous]OP, a lot of families have inequities that seem to somehow mysteriously work for them. BIL is the "first born son" and gets all kinds of special treatment, even though he makes a ton of money. He bought a franchise from DHs company, using ILs money, pulled out last minute, thus causing the company to have to absorb the money (leading to its closure) and now it's on DH to pay ILs back. No mention is ever made that it was BILs business, loans, or decisions that led to this big financial mess. But, DH loves his parents unconditionally, and your DH probably does too. So, stay out of it, and let the family dynamic run how it's likely always run, regardless of what "fair" is in your eyes. Could be because she's the girl, the youngest, the product of an affair... Who knows. Just be happy you can fend for yourself and have no strings attached to your happiness. [/quote]
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