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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What kind of weight did you gain OP?  Like what are we talking about- 10 pounds or 100? [/quote]

I'm 6'0. When we met I was 205 (never that thin). I got up to 230. I'm back to 200.

When we met she was 135. She got up to 148. She's now prob 140.[/quote]

That's what I though.  A difference of 5 pounds is hardly noticeable, especially on your frame.

Could you try getting your weight down further?  Might increase her attraction to you, a LOT[/quote]

That makes no sense. Sex was hot for 1.5 years at 205. Logically then, can't be the weight. I'm in better shape now than she is (relative to where we met each other at). [/quote]

She's gained 5 pounds. Again, hardly anything. Most women can gain and lose that in a day based on menstrual cycle.

And you know- the initial newness of a relationship can make up for lack of physical attraction.  Then when you really get to know someone, and the freshness isnt there to distract from the fact that someone has a mediocre body... well, that's when it's time to step it up.[/quote]

You don't even know her height! All you know is that I'm -5 lbs from where we met and she's +5 lbs. If I told you she's 5'2 and 140 I could easily play the mediocre body card too. I just don't think it's this. At 230 for me yes. Not at 200.[/quote]

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