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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry that you are dealing with this, OP.  I was there, and it is not fun.  I do not remember this level of exhaustion, but I had really bad morning sickness.  My ex (yeah...) used to call me fat, told me I should suck it up, and all of the same things you're dealing with.

For once, I needed some help.  And when push came to shove, he was not able to rise to the occasion.  I took care of everything and suddenly, there were certain things that had to give.  He was awful -- and most certainly got worse after the baby was born.  We did not recover.  This was not evident before I was pregnant (although we had plenty of other issues that I also did not recognize).  The baby was planned and wanted, I just had no idea what a baby my ex was, until he was not getting all of my time and attention.  Sorry, I was growing and then caring for another human being.  The conversation you described?  BTDT.

You know your DH better than any of us.  My ex knew the facts, he just could not deal with them in reality.  If educating your DH is all he needs, that is good news![/quote]

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