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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Then regardless of who's "right" in this situation, it's more than that. You're not really able to have an "this is what we agree on for our relationship" understanding about something that is making each of you have negative feelings about the other's judgment. At the very least, it's good information about a lack of compatibility in some areas that feel like they matter to you.[/quote]

I don't agree with this take away (necessarily). I am very private with social media/pictures too, but have a friend who tries to take my photos anyway and uploads them onto facebook. I find this incredibly disrespectful. [/quote]

There is nothing here saying the guy put them on social media. Just that he snapped a quick candid photo and sent it to his friends.

I don't think you can dictate how people communicate with their friends OP. It might be upsetting to know everything an SO tells a friend about you but everyone needs a safe outlet to talk about their thoughts. Would you have cared if he'd just shown the person a picture of you? It wasn't a naked picture or anything on the internet at large, it was sending a completely appropriate picture to a friend. I think what the BF shouldn't have done is promise to do something (ie, never take a picture of you?) that he didn't think he was capable of doing. I agree with other PPs, it sounds like you're just incompatible (and that you in particular need a special kind of guy who will be ok with a weird request like this) and that you should just move on. Or accept that today, snapping and sending pictures is just a part of normal life and you have to get over it. I would think something like this is like, asking the person you're dating not to drink or touch you in public or something. Its a request that causes people to reexamine automatic behavior which is much harder then just like, 'i'm the kind of girl that likes flowers, remember to send them once a month.'[/quote]

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